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How to Have Sex Like A Man....

This is a topic that i believe will be helpful to alot of my girlfriends and hopefully lots of other women. Many of my girlfriend's i find become so attached to guys after they have sex, which i believe is self-destructive. I cannot tell you how many times i have been left to pick up the pieces after a girlfriend has had some random night of passion with some hot guy who she thinks she had a connection with; only to end up devastated the next day when the guy does not call. Based on my many observations I have developed a theory that women link sex to their emotions and they believe that sex should ultimately lead to more meaningful things unlike men who see sex purely for pleasure preferably with no strings attached. For men sex is just a shallow affair that requires often times no emotional engagement. I have found, however, that women genuinely do not approach sex like how men do and that women 9 out of 10 times are not capable of having sex without any meaning or developing some attachment. It is a known fact that men can get an erection quite easily and it does not take much to "get a guy off" for a lot of a better expression, however, with women it takes a bit more for her to get an orgasm and she has to be a bit more emotionally involved during sex in order to achieve maximum pleasure. I am not negating the fact that some women do have the capacity to see sex as a casual affair like men do and can have sex with a guy without wondering whether or not the guy will like them in the future or give them a call the next day. However, for the most part, most females I know do not fall within this bracket and still find it hard to separate their emotions from sex. If you struggle with this, I believe this blog post will be extremely helpful to you in understanding how a guy functions and to see his typical mindset when it comes to sex. I believe by having adequate knowledge of this you will be able to mirror their behavior and have sex just like a man without any emotional attachments. In the end you would have enjoyed your sexual experience with no built up expectations; consequently if the guy does not call the next day it would not matter at all. Here are my Top five tips on how to have sex like a man: 1. Men see sex as a matter of conquest, it is just a casual affair for them, when they go out almost 8 times out of 10 their objective is to find someone to go home with at the end of the night. So they spend the entire night like animals in the jungle scouting out their prey. In other words most men view women as “meat” or in essence food. Their ability to hunt and to retrieve this food is important for their ego and masculinity approval. So ladies the next time you are at the club and you see a guy approach you just think of this and make him the prey instead. Be the hunter instead of the hunted. As you are in fact much higher on the food chain than men  2. Most men are not interested in your emotions or your feelings or even what you have to say. When a guy approaches you to talk to you their primary objective is to get sex. What you need to realize is that 90 percent of the times men think about sex and are almost never interested in what you think or feel. It is just that they know if they approached you and told you upfront that they wanted to have sex with you, you probably would not give them the time of day. Unequivocally, they spend time to get to know you and ask you questions, listening to what you have to say with the hope that at the end of the day you will give them what they want which is sex. Ultimately, they see women as just subjects or objects for sex. So my advice is not to get your emotions too involved when you just meet a guy because he is sweet , listens and pays attention to you. if you are going to have sex, it should be just that sex as sex is just sex for a guy nothing else. 3. If you are looking for a relationship you probably should not be having casual sex; as most men who want the same are not out looking to sleep with any random girl. Consequently, if you want to have sex like a man do not have casual sex with guys that you may be interested in having something more with. Those are the guys you should make work a little harder to get inside your cookie jar. If a guy really likes you he will do the work to get inside your heart before he tries to get inside your panties. 4. Men are most times if not always only concerned about their own personal gratification during sex. Often times women are left doing all the work exerting all the energy and in the end never attaining an orgasm. Men are selfish during sex; so if you are going to have casual sex you should ensure that you are doing it for your own personal gratification as well. Sex is like a sport for men, it is a fun thing to do and that is the same type of mindset that you need to have as well. 5. A night of passion should be just that, a night of passion, no attached meanings, no expectations. After it is done you should never linger. if you are at his house you should get up, put on your clothes and leave afterwards. If he is by your house or apartment you should kindly lead him to the exit after you are through. This is in order to not leave any room for any other further interpretation. Sex is like a transaction for men and it is usually customary not to "lay" with your business partners. After you finish the transaction you should make a successful exit. As this is the primary thought on a guy's mind after sex, if he is only interested in sex, how to get to the nearest exit without leaving any room for awkwardness. Ladies follow these tips and at the end of a night of passion you will feel satisfied and not emotionally exhausted. It will spare you the fatigue of wondering whether he will call or not. The Number one thing is that if you are going to have casual sex it should be just that casual sex. Take my foolish advice and you will see what happens...

WHAT IS A "THOT"??????

So i recently got introduced to a new word... one day i was minding my own business while scrolling through my instagram wall and this word just kept popping up. It was like the universe was trying to tell me something. This peaked my curiosity as i had no idea what this slang meant and why it had become a staple in the vernacular of so many people on my instagram. Anyways, being the person that i am and with my never-ending thirst for knowledge which springs from my need to always being in the know; i decided to enquire a bit deeper to find out what exactly was a "Thot": Upon careful research or rather a quick google search i came to realise that this slang "THOT" was not a word but an "acronym", which is an abbreviation for the phrase "That Hoe Over There". In essence a "Thot" is a "Hoe" or should i say "Whore"; in layman's terms it refers to a woman who sleeps around with everyone. Then i thought here is another word probably created by misogynstic men to further degrade and insult women. With that said i am even more puzzled at this point as to why would people think it is okay to use this word and how it has become so popular. Are there not enough words already in the urban dictionary which degrades women and continue to descecrate their integrity. Frankly, i do not get it... the million dollar question is why do all offensive slangs have to be limited to women. I have yet to come across an insulting slang created to describe men in the same fashion. In fact men who sleep around with everyone, who are "whores" as well in my opinion, are often lauded and applauded. This further goes to show that even in this time and age sexism is still alive and that we as a people still have a long way to go as it regards gender equality and doing away with gender stereotypes. It is quite shameful to see people promote and endorse such hateful slangs that demean women. The funny thing is that many of those who continue to use this slang are not even aware of what it means neither are they familiar with its appropriate usage. However as kermit the frog would say " That's none of my Business". People I implore you to be mindful of the trends you follow; I will leave you with an old adage "NOT EVERYTHING THAT GLITTERS IS GOLD".